Continued from last post…
Woman: Show him
Men see with their eyes. The first time your man came after you, he did because of what he saw. This is as a result of the fact that males interpret love first with their sight. You can get his mind fully involved with you by showing him the details. For example, you can cuddle your breasts invitingly and see him come after them as though he is seeing them for the first time. You could hold his head up and look straight into his eyes while he bangs away. He definitely loves those eyes of yours. If you want to get into his mind further, let him see things (don’t put out the light). Let him see those eyes close and flutter. Let him see the mouth hang loose and your teeth pressed against your lips. Let him see your reactions of his action on your body. This will not only increase his ego, you will enjoy being watched by him. If you like a particular thrust, make some noise!
Man: Talk to her
Women see and interpret love with their ears. So reach deep into her soul by speaking those words even while having a very deep and intense session of sex. Say sweet things into her ears while you are busy doing things to her body.
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Relish the smell: During lovemaking, there are three odors that are easily noticeable. They are smell of semen, vaginal secretions and perspiration. Enjoy the odors by mixing them with the excitement you are getting from the sex.
Fantasize: Another great way of having a great sex life with the agency of the mind is found in fantasies. Why not fantasize about you and your spouse having sex – exactly how you want it. You are being touched at those (erogenous) points that you so desire to be touched, you are in the kind of environment you would love to be at, you are relishing a beautiful flower smell, etc. At the time you are done, you can tell your spouse a great story of two lovers having a wonderful lovemaking session. You should either use your real names or your pet names – whatever is more appealing and romantic for that time. For example, if your spouse calls you ‘darling’ and you call him ‘honey,’ you could cast your characters accordingly.
This will not only be a very good way to arouse the two of you, it can also give your spouse an insight into what you want and what you are looking forward to.
Warning: Describe your spouse vividly when you are telling this story. Let him or her not think that you are narrating what you did with someone else.
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